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Sarah talks about her 'Chuy',Alejandro Cook
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Cpl Aaron Arnold Falls For Joyce!
Aunt Linda Talks About Jen Harris
Tammy Loves Ryan Valdez
Angela Talks about Benjamin Angela and Leon Talk about Suggs
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"What do you mean you've got orders?"

24 hours after the birth of our daughter my husband came into the hospital room informing me that he had just received orders to Vietnam. I immediately went into a state of panic that only increased when doctors refused to let me leave the hospital for 3 days. Confronted with the crisis of war, what would you say to a woman whose hormones are all out of sync? Not much, I think. Certainly, the doctors at Camp LeJeune, N.C. knew better than to pander the usual lines of reassurance. "Don't worry, little lady", was just not going to fly with me! I suspect, at that moment that they thought I was more dangerous than some faceless enemy 3000 miles away and were probably right. I, like many other women of the time had to adjust to the orders of the USMC, even if they appeared to be poorly timed. Okay, it was war, I understood that, I was a Marine wife, I understood that, but at the time my feelings and thoughts were not exactly communicating together!

So what memories do I have of that period? Surprisingly, my husband's Marine buddies stand out as the most cherished. After discovering our situation several men in his unit requested to take his place in deployment so we could have time settle our family before he left. The request understandably was denied, but the selflessness of these men still remains in my heart. All the hype of the rough and tumble, emotionless highly trained warrior, is just that, hype. These men remain in my heart and mind as my protectors.

Kerry was stationed with HMM-364, Purple Foxes at DaNang from 1969-1970.

Vicki Wages

Sgt Kerry Wages 1969
Then
Sgt. Kerry J. Wages
1969-1970
Vicki & Kerry Wages 2003
Now
Vicki and Kerry
2003
A Letter from A Doc's Kid, Stephanie


4/2/03 8:53:33 PM Central Standard Time

The show that the reporter Greg Jarrett reports in to is the Mark & Dave show. This morning I sent an email of thanks to Mark and Dave, although I didn't really know if it would ever get through to them personally. I turned the radio on this afternoon at

Stephanie Hanson at the Wall

4pm to hear the start of their show (they talk about Iraq almost 100% of the time right now). They said they had to start the show out with very important and serious letter... and then proceeded to read my email! They read the entire letter (which I've put at the end of this email) on air and said that tomorrow they will be sharing it with Greg Jarrett personally. We'll see if they do it on air or not. If they do, it will be on that same web site by Friday.

I spoke with Mark & Dave on the phone this afternoon and told them how shocked I was to hear the letter being read and told them that there are now lots of Foxes, wives and mothers across the States checking in on their website for the reports, etc. They thought that was pretty cool. So if they let the Greg Jarrett know this, then perhaps he will pass it along to the guys so they know the moms and wives are getting some communication that way.

Okay, here's my letter. I'm still in shock that they read it, but am so glad that there is a way for us Foxes and Foxy Ladies across the States to hear these reports.

My letter...which they read word for word.

Hi Mark and Dave,

I cannot thank you enough for including Greg Jarrett's reports on the Purple Foxes in your show. And for archiving them on your web site in case I miss them.

My name is Stephanie Hanson and my father was a corpsman killed in Vietnam on 2/7/69 with the Purple Foxes. He was flying his first day of medevac missions (just as the Foxes are now) when the helicopter was shot down and 6 out of 7 Marines were killed.

My father was killed 2 months before I was born and I was subsequently put up for adoption. It was only 6 years ago that I found out who my father was and I began a search to find out who he was and what had happened to him. I discovered that it was my good fortune that he had happened to be flying with the Purple Foxes that day because you could not have asked for a greater bunch of guys.

The Vietnam-era Foxes have come out of the woodwork to help me put all the pieces together and have truly formed a new family for me. Many of them keep in touch with the active-duty Foxes - you just wouldn't be able to find a closer-knit family.

Last year, the active-duty Purple Foxes - headed up by their Commanding Officer - helped me finally get my father awarded his Combat Aircrew Wings. I had struggled for years to get these awarded to no avail, but the Purple Foxes really came through for me. These are the same guys that are now over in Iraq flying those dangerous missions Greg Jarrett is reporting on. I had gotten emails and letters from the guys before the war started, but communication is difficult now and so I really rely on the media to keep me informed of the happenings.

It was a great pleasure to find out that you regularly talk to the reported embedded with "my guys" and for that I just wanted to tell you thank you from the bottom of my heart. Thank you for the support you are giving these guys every day. You are helping to show the rest of the world just how wonderful this group of guys are. They are just doing there job and we want them all to come home safe.

Semper Fi,
Stephanie Hanson
A Doc's Kid

See more about Stephanie's journey!

A Letter of Support from a Purple Fox


Feel like the work we do as Foxy Ladies is taken for granted? Read this from one of our Vietnam veterans!

4/2/03 6:39:28 PM Central Standard Time

Keep up the great work. One of the most constructive things the reunions provide, in my opinion, is an opportunity for the wives (especially second wives) to compare their spousal experiences and there by gain better insight into exactly what the hell might be going on in their husbands' minds. Never having known him before his Viet Nam service, they have no reference of comparison for his present behavior and attitude. Wives are innate care-givers and are the ultimate supporters. They can't effectively fulfill that instinctive role without some insight from those with previous first-hand experience. The Foxy Ladies are providing an invaluable service to the spouses of men who may not fully realize that they need, and can benefit from, their spouse's nurturing. Perhaps they'll also have a role in helping the current wives of Purple Foxes deployed in Iraq cope with and understand what their spouses are experiencing.

Regards,
Bob

Sgt. Robert Steinberg (Super Jew) was in Vietnam '67-'69

Bob Steinberg 1967-70

Bob '67-'70

Sgt  Robert Steinberg. 2003
Bob 2003

 
A Foxy Lady Visits Camp Pendleton

My trip to southern CA last week turned out to be absolutely wonderful – and not just because of the wonderful weather! Everywhere I went, I definitely got the special treatment and it was a perfect way for me to spend the 35th anniversary of my father’s crash in Vietnam. Being with Purple Fox veterans and active-duty military really made it meaningful for me.
Stepanie Hanson, Gooie & Carleen Gomez
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On Thursday, Gooie and Carleen Gomez took me down to Camp Pendleton where we visited the active-duty Purple Fox unit. Lt. Davidge – the S-5 officer – gave us the grand tour. We were taken everywhere in the building, which really made me laugh because doors, stairs and all sorts of random places were painted purple – it was great! I was finally able to meet Captain Justin Marvel for the first time in person. Captain Marvel is the one who headed up and put many hours of work into getting my father his wings and I was finally able to thank him in person.

The highlight came when we went out to the flight line. All sorts of helicopters flying around – Huey’s, Cobra’s, 53’s, and of course, the 46’s. We put on the cranial helmets and walked out into the middle of the action. One bird was waiting for us and Lt. Davidge and a pilot who was visiting from HMM-268 explained all the finer details to me. I was able to sit in the pilot’s seat for probably 30 minutes and watch all the activity around us. I saw all the helicopters flying around, maneuvering, hovering, landing, taking off…. it was absolutely incredible for me to be in the middle of it. Nothing like it as you guys that have done it know! :-)

When they were finally able to drag me away from the flight deck, we met the CO – Col Radich – and the XO – Major Mee of the Foxes. I had not met either of them before and they made sure that we were seeing all we wanted.

They gave us gifts of Purple Fox patches, the CO’s Purple Fox coin, and one item that any Vietnam-era Purple Fox will find interesting. In continuing the tradition started in Vietnam of Purple Fox calling cards, the current unit has created an updated version for their missions in Iraq. With a picture of Swifty, it reads as follows:
Stephanie Hanson in a CH-46

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" Swifty says “Give a Shit.” This ride brought to you by the World Famous Purple Foxes of HMM-364. Sure, it is the oldest pig in the fleet. And yes, it leaks a lot. But you ain’t walkin!"

Then we went into the supply room where they turned off all the lights and showed us the night-vision goggles – something I had not seem before and was fascinated by.

My visit truly exceeded all expectations and I was amazed by how much time and thoughtfulness they put into our visit.

The next day, we went down to MCRD for the color parade and a graduation. Gooie had previously met the Base Commander, BGen Paxton, who had the protocol officer arrange for VIP seating for us at the graduation. When we arrived at the ceremony, I was amazed to see that we had received front-row seating. But if I was amazed at that, I was stunned when I saw that I was seated next to General Paxton! I tried to make Gooie sit by him, but he wouldn’t hear of it.

 
Stephanie Hanson, General Paxton
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General Paxton arrived and we were introduced and he soon made me forget my nervousness. He is truly wonderful and put me right at ease. He answered all my questions during the ceremony, pointed out ‘insider’ information on the happenings, and in general just made me feel very special. My brother had graduated from MCRD back in September of 1990, and I wasn’t able to go to his graduation having just started college in Washington DC. General Paxton asked lots of questions about my brother’s time in the service and I told him how jealous my brother was going to be when I got back home and told him about the ceremony.

On Saturday, I went to visit Col Gene Brady, who was recovering from surgery in the hospital. (For those of you who don’t know, Gene was the CO of the Purple Foxes the day of my father’s crash.) I was able to spend about an hour visiting with he and Ginny and they both actually looked really great. They are looking forward to the Pop A Smoke reunion in Reno in just a few months.

That evening I went to a play on Vietnam with the Gomez’s, Richard and Brenda Bianchino, and Lt Williamson, the pilot from HMM-268 that both Gooie and Richard know. While the play was difficult to watch at times, bringing up a lot of emotions, it was still a perfect way for me to pay tribute to my father and the men that died with him so many years ago.

Unfortunately, I had to return home to Portland and 33 degree weather. (I’m most definitely ready to move to Southern California at this point!) While it is always sad to return home after such a wonderful time, I will close by saying that I continue to be amazed at the generosity and true interest of all our active-duty Marines today. I don’t think my visit to either base could have turned out any better! What a great life I lead surrounded by such wonderful people!


Stephanie Hanson
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Stephanie Hanson
"Aunt" Linda Macone Talks About her Niece 1st Lt Jen Harris


For a little something about Jen and me...............Jen is the daughter I never had! I have three sons, the oldest of whom is an Army (ouch!) Kiowa helicopter pilot. Jen's mom has Multiple Sclerosis and it is very difficult for her to get around.............so I happily was able to share more in Jen's life than the typical aunt. I had the fun of shopping for prom dresses, USNA Ring Dance, visiting the Naval Academy with my video camera always in tow so the whole family could share the experiences "on TV". Thanks to the wonderful world of the internet, I have been able to share everything that Jen has done with her family. We have a scapbook of pictures and articles, all of her e-mails and even the audio interview with Greg Jarrett on a cd to give to her when she returns.

Jen has always been an extremely hard worker. She puts 100% into everything she does. She is also very compassionate. She really cares about people and I am sure that the Purple Foxes are benefiting from that quality. She is a good listener and I am sure that she has probably filled the void felt by some of her Marines, leaving their Moms or sisters or best friends to go off to war. I am sooooooooooo proud of her..........and all of our men and women in the military!

Foxy Lady Linda Macone Proud Aunt!

Tammy Harlan Loves Her LCPL Ryan J. Valdez
Ryan was born August 17, 1982. He is my first born. He has 4 sisters and 3 brothers (these are full blood and steps). Ryan is the oldest at 20... then Stacey 18, Nicole 16, Brett 13, Brittney 12, E.J. 9, Mikaela 5, Sammy 3.

Ryan is married to Tracie Valdez, his New Prairie High School sweetheart. Ryan and Tracie married right before Ryan left for boot camp in California. Ryan grew up in North Central, Indiana. He went to New Prairie High School where he excelled in sports (baseball, football and wrestling). Ryan has an off the wall sense of humor (much like his mother).. and is extremely creative. He will never know a "dull moment" because it has always been very easy for him to just "dream something up to do." His favorite past-time has to be playing video games (X-Box). Ryan also loves to cook... and is great at it!

I'm 40 years old and live in Rolling Prairie, Indiana with my husband, (SW/AW) IC1 Ernest H. Harlan, US NAVY... and 2 children, Stacey 18 and Brett 13. I own 2 businesses: Santiago SDS, Inc. (www.santiagosds.com) and Medical Billing Course.com (www.medicalbillingcourse.com). I'm extremely proud of my son and I cannot wait for him to return home. When I start hugging him.. I doubt I will be able to let go of him!!!

Tammy Harlan (mom)
Angela talks about L Cpl Benjamin J.Dalbeck
Angie & Benjamin Dalbeck
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Benjamin joined the Marines right out of High school back in 99'. He has two other brothers that also were Marines. I have 8 siblings so its like one big happy family (most of the time). Benjamin's mother and father live in San Bernardino, Ca about 3 hours from us.

We were married August 7, 2002 and his deployment will be over two days AFTER our 1st anniversary! No children yet, all I know is we will be having one ASAP when he gets home!
My first call from him was on Valentines Day and was like "Oh I love you". Man did that melt my heart. I thought he was being all romantic for finding time to call me on Valentines Day, A month later I get a letter saying "Oh yeah I found out after I got off the phone with you that it was Valentines Day!" Ha! So much for romantic but I still love him. On another call he told me he had tacos. I was like 'oh cool', but he was so excited because all they eat are hamburgers and hot dogs and soggy fries.

To kill time Benjamin writes or records messages on tape. We send these back and forth. That helps alot. I love Benjamin. What he is doing a is a great thing, I only wish I could be out there helping him or even trade places. Now that we have hit the 3 month marker (crossing our fingers that they do come home at 6 months) it is all down hill from here on.

Benjamin
, is a hard working guy, he puts all his effort and will into everything he does. He works in administration and is the one that makes certain that all the letters get through! Benjamin is my best friend so him being gone I am missing, not only my husband but my best friend! With God's help I'm sure I will pull through all this. I am just so proud of what all of our Marines are doing out there. I love him! :) Hope that helps let me know if he will be on on the site because if he is then that would melt my heart.
Angela
5/4/03
Angela and Leon, Proud Parents of Cpl. Brandon Keith Suggs
Cpl Brandon Suggs and Dad Leon Wanted to let you know we found our fox! Brandon emailed me Sunday. You can't imagine the excitement at our house. He is doing fine and misses his family. He said he had only gotten one of the tons of packages we sent. I told him to hold on for the avalanche of mail!

Here's a little about Brandon, he is 19 years old, he joined to Marines in his Senior year. He was at boot camp when the Sept 11th attacks took place. So he has been in 1 and half years.
Brandon is very well respected in our area for standing up for what he believes
in.There is not a day that goes by that someone doesnt ask, have you heard from Brandon?Is Brandon ok?
From what we understand Brandon handles the tools and test equipment for the CH-46 helicopters.
Brandon
was promoted to Cpl just before he left for Kuwait. He loves to travel and loves to talk!

Proud Marine Mom
Angela Suggs
Foxy Lady Karen and Sgt. Patrick Swearingen
Sgt Pat Swearingen
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Foxy Lady Karen and Sgt. Patrick Swearingen have been married just over a year, March 9, 2002 was the wedding date. Karen told us "We don't have any children yet, but plan on having them in the future. Pat and I enjoy hanging out with friends, BBQing, playing games and relaxing together. We are both pretty sarcstic, but very supportive, so there are very few dull moments around our house. As we all know being married to a Marine has its ups and downs. What I enjoy about living with Marine (besides just having my husband around) is the support
from others. If we need something or there is an emergency, there is always some one there to lend a hand or help in any way they can. I also love the pride and courage that the Marines display on a daily basis. The down sides are sacrifices that come with the benefits, the seperation and long, odd hours. Those are a things that get easier to deal with as times goes by. Pat is planning on getting out of the Marine Corps when the stop loss is lifted, his date to get out was May 25 of this year, but we will have to wait on that. We will miss the bonuses that come with the Corps, but are excited to move back closer to family. We have made some very good friends that I am sure we will stay in contact with."
LCPL John Burrows Mom Speaks Up!
LCPL John Burrows
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John enlisted in the Marines in October of 2000. He is 22 years old and single. He is my second born and has two sisters, Malynda 25, Ashley 16 and one deceased brother, Jesse whom would of been 21, died at 15 months due to a rare virus. His father has remarried and John has two other brothers Bobbi 11, and Joey 10.
Ever since John could crawl around he was taking things apart and putting them back together...Hinges on doors, radios, working on engines etc... He likes to work with his hands and has always wanted to be a mechanic.
John says "I haven't done anything special. I am just doing my job". Of course my reply is ALL positions are special and are important to work
together as a team to get the job done.
John is a very intelligent, caring and loving individual. He would give his last meal to someone in need. He is willing to help others in any way he can. But for the most part he is ALL Marine.
Johns position/rank: LCPL Maintenance Control/Mechanic

Thank you.
Wendy
LCPL John Burrows
Proud Marine Mom

Veda & Kit Jacoby, and Chip the Lizardman!

Sgt Chip Jacoby
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"Okay, about the lizard picture. The first thing I thought was how typical
that Chip would be holding some sort of reptile. Chip grew up in the
country of very Northern California. It's a small farming community. The
mountains were his backyard so he and his brother grew up exploring them
and bringing home all sorts of critters. Chip wanted to be a paleontologist when he grew up. I can see he is keeping that option open while he is in Iraq".

Stepmom Veda Jacoby

"I am Kit Jacoby and am the proud father of Chip the lizardman and husband to Veda .
That is so much as his childhood. Whenever the work was done he would run out on the farm an catch lizards. Then try to keep them alive in a mason jar. Keep us informed on the progress the 364th is having.

Dad Kit Jacoby
Chip has quite a following in the Foxy Lady membership with his famous lizard photo!
Maj James Shores Proposes to Diane on a Plane!
Diane Storm & James Shores
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Jim
and I met at a "Winging" party here in Pensacola in May of 2001. I was there to see a Marine friend off and he was there as the dutiful instructor pilot. So, we have known each other since that day, May 25, 2003.

"We were headed to Key West for my birthday and Jim was in cahoots with the pilot and the flight attendants, so when the captain was telling us that we were about 50 miles from Key West, he also said, "Diane Storm, James Shores has a very important question for you..." and Jim pulled out the ring and popped the question. The flight attendant asked me what my answer was (because I was crying so hard I couldn't talk...happy tears of course), so I told her definitely, "YES".
She then told the captain and he announced it to the whole plane. We even got a round of applause!!! We had a great week in Key West-- and it was made even better because of the proposal!
When the Purple Foxes get back to the States, we will have to find a home in San Diego and then Jim will come to Pensacola to get me and our dog and two cats. Talk about a cross-country trip! We have a house here in Pensacola that we need to sell too, so it'll be kind of a mess for a while.

As for being a Marine wife, I know I'm going to enjoy it. Jim's father was also in the Marines and his Mom has given me some good advice. As have several friends of ours whose marriages have made it through USMC retirement. Basically it's the three "Be's". Be patient, Be understanding, and Be Strong. I can't wait to meet everyone in the squadron and become involved in the activities that they are doing."

Diane Storm 'Soon to be a Fox Wife!"
Amy's Adventure with Capt. Ryan DeMik!
Ryan & Amy DeMik
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My husband, Ryan grew up a Navy brat and always wanted to be a pilot. His father Gregory DeMik, Lt. Commander, was stationed all around the world in his 20+ years flying fixed wing in the Navy. Ryan spent most of his early years overseas; 7 years at Subic in the Philippines and 3 in Sicily, before returning to the states to live in Corpus Christi and then LeMoore in CA. Ryan applied on a whim to USNA, and fell over when it was one of the few schools that accepted him. After 2 years, he felt that it was time to follow a more spiritual path, and left the Academy to go on a mission for our church. Upon leaving, the Academic Dean told him "not to bother to reapply when he got back".
Not looking back Ryan, went to his assignment as a missionary in Japan. He lived and worked spreading Christian principles and teaching English to many in the Nagoya area for 2 years. Towards the end of this time he wasn't sure what he would be returning to; what school he would return to or if he would ever realize his dream of being an aviator. This was a difficult time for him to think that following his heart and fulfilling a mission may have jeopardized his dream of flying. His father had taken it upon himself to resubmit all of the paperwork and recommendations for Ryan to be re accepted into the Academy as a Junior. To everyone's amazement he returned to BOAT SCHOOL, as he called it and hit the books again.

It was in December of '95 at the ARMY-NAVY Football game in Philadelphia that we met. We started dating his last year and he graduated with a degree in Computer Sciences and a Minor in Japanese in '97. It was these final years at the Academy and his experiences on summer cruise with Marines both at Quantico and Mirimar that convinced this NAVY BRAT to run for the CORPS! One chance at painting his face and playing war games and he was done...no looking back...it was MARINE CORPS ALL THE WAY. Well, needless to say, it was a difficult phone call back to Mom and Dad, but he was then selected for MARINE AIR, shaved and after Commissioning, sent to the Pentagon for 2 months before TBS.

I was thrilled that my handsome husband wasn't wearing those MILKMAN Navy uniforms anymore! We were married at the Naval Academy Chapel on July 12, 1997 and moved to Woodbridge, VA to begin our journey. He went through Basic, then started API and then on to Whiting Field. In between the studying and flight school schedule, we had some time to have our first born, our son, Ryan "Austin" DeMik. At this time, Ryan started to lean more and more to the 46 community as his first choice. He wanted to be a Marine because he was so impressed by the NOT FOR ONESELF attitude that he saw present in every Marine. Working on 46's seemed like a great fit to be involved with Grunts as well as that team work feeling you get from working with a 4 man crew. So, graduating at the top of his class in Feb, 2000 he chose 46's Okinawa (the selection that most people dread!) He went through the RAG out here at Pendleton with HMM-165, then we were off to THE ROCK!

Our time on Oki with HMM-262 was an adventure. It was a fantastic group of people....you know, when you make that one batch of chili that has just the right seasonings, you can never replicate it no matter how hard you try! He was involved with many exercises in the Thailand, S. Korea, Hong Kong, Mainland Japan and almost in the Philippines.. his bird had hydraulic failure and had to make an emergency landing on one of the islands on the path to the PI and stayed over for a few days before they could return to FUTENMA. So, after making it through a MEU with the ESSEX Battle Group we settled in but due to health issues with our daughter, Ellie, who was born on island, we needed to return to the States for health care. It was a blessing that he was picked up by HMM-364 and we moved to Camp Pendleton in January of 2002.

So, what can I say about my husband? That after 6 years of marriage, 2 kids, 9 moves, and countless MEU exercises, TADs, CAXs, schools, duties, "I won't be home for dinner again" days, I can honestly say he is still the kindest, most decent man I have ever known. I miss him terribly but know that he is doing his job, what he has trained to do, what he joined the Marine Corps to do, and I'm sure he's doing it as thoroughly as he can and with a joke and a smile.

Semper Fi, let's hope things rap up soon for our beloved Purple Foxes.
Amy DeMik

Katy, Cassidy and Dad Daniel Caldwell
Katy & Cassidy
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Daniel
joined the Marines in 1999 and was due to get out July 2003 but there was a stop loss order.

He left on Feb 9th for Kuwait & Cassidy was born on March 26th. He is
thrilled to be a Daddy, he just wishes he could be here for the first months of her life. It's really hard for him to miss so much, but I send him pictures all the time & we just wait patiently for his safe return. He comes home a few days after the bulk of the guys. He doesn't leave until all their gear is gone. He is an embarkation specialist.

We met on Sept 19, 2001 at the beach in oceanside. I don't know about him, but it was love at first sight for me. That first night I told my friend I was going to marry him. We sat up & talked all night until he had to get ready to go to work. We were married by the Justice of the Peace on Dec. 17,
2002.
We are going to have a big wedding with friends & family in attendance on Sept. 28th 2003.
Come home soon!

Katy and Cassity

Sara and Shawn's Crash Meeting!
Sara & Shawn
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Jonathan "Shawn"
and I met in college. Actually, I met him before he met me. I was whipping into the parking lot, as I often did, and swiped his car. There was no real damage, just a little scratch and some white paint on his blue bumper. I got out and brushed it off and parked somewhere else. About a month later I saw the car and someone was getting out. He was headed in the same direction I was, to a co-ed business fraternity gathering. Shawn and I ended up in the same pledge class and became good friends, although I avoided attending the car washes with him. One of our close friends finally told him about 2 years ago that I had hit his car. We all had a good laugh over it, because it was a little bit of kismet. We stayed friends after college and emailed occasionally. One evening we happened to bump into each other on line and got reacquainted and fell in love.

Shawn and I dated for 9 months before he enlisted and went to boot camp. Being a Marine brat, I was well aware of the "dangers" of being a Marine wife. Shawn grew up in the Air Force, so the Marine life was a bit of a shock. I stayed in Louisiana while he went through MCRD San Diego. His graduation was my first trip to California. It was the most awesome site to see all the recruits becoming Marines. After MCT, Shawn went to Pensacola, my hometown, for mech school and then to New River for more Air Frames and Hydraulics training. It was neat having him stationed on or near the bases where I grew up. In spring of 2000, he was finally stationed at Camp Pendleton with HMM-364 and 2 months later I was transferred to Dallas with JCPenney. We have earned lots of frequent flyer miles between Dallas and San Diego. After a year of traveling and with 2 years left on his tour, we decided it was time to get married. We figured it would make the time left more interesting.

My friends keep telling me I’m insane because I still live in Dallas/Frisco. We have a house, 2 horses and 2 dogs. The horses don’t live with me. Shawn just made Sargeant while in Kuwait, and I had thought I would be there when he received this promotion (I had missed the others) but we will have to celebrate when he returns. He enjoys working in the Corrosion Control shop and I am really proud of the work he does. His EAS is April 27, 2004. Living together will be a challenge, but after this, anything is possible and I am eagerly awaiting the challenge. I am so proud of him for making this commitment to his country and to the United States Marine Corps, it makes me love him even more.
Semper Fi!
Sara

Cpl Aaron Arnold Falls For Joyce!
Aaron & Joyce Arnold
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Aaron and Joyce first met in 1999. At the time, Joyce was almost a senior in high school and was living with her sister Jennifer and her husband Brian. Aaron, Brian's cousin had just enlisted when he met Joyce. He was entranced by Joyce and asked her out. Their first date they spent almost an entire night talking at Denny's. But fate had something else in mind and the couple parted ways.

14 months later Joyce had moved to Long Beach CA. and ran into Aaron again. There was no turning back! The two of them dated steadily, until they married. Their first addition to the Arnold family was Ariana who was born on January 25, three weeks early! Her Dad, Aaron left for Kuwait on Feb. 9. Ariana had to see her Dad before he left!

This is a true Fox Family!

The "Grand Old Man', Helen & Abigail Sandoval

Helen & Abigail Sandoval
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Brian and I met in 1992 at work. I asked him to my homecoming football game to make my ex-boyfriend jealous. We got along so well that we started dating. After 3 years of dating, he proposed to me on a mountain top. We married in September of 1996. Brian didn't join the military right out of high school like most do. He waited to the last possible minute. He left for boot camp on his 32nd birthday. He was nicknamed the "grand old man." All of his drill instructors were at least 5 years younger then him. After bootcamp and all of his additional training was over, we were happy to receive the news that he would be stationed at Camp Pendleton.
Both of us grew up in Orange County, CA so it's great to be able to stay close to our families.
I found out I was pregnant when Brian was in South Korea. He would call me everyday and ask if I was pregnant. He finally stopped asking after about 3 weeks of me saying no. Then I thought I had the flu. The flu turned out to be morning sickness. Long story short, Abigail was born October 29th. We are both so happy. Brian left for Kuwait when Abigail was 3 months old. I know it broke his heart. I email him pictures almost everyday....of her taking her first bites of cereal....to sucking on her foot. When he calls I put the phone up to Abby's ear and she smiles when she hears his voice. We can't wait for him to come home.

WE LOVE YOU B!
Hurry home.


Helen Sandoval
Cowboy's Mom Talks about Kirk Nelson!
Capt Kirk Nelson
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Kirk is the youngest of our two children and our only son. He has wanted to fly since we took him to the Air and Space Museum at the Smithsonian when he was 3 years old. Kirk is an Eagle Scout and went to Scout camp every year from age 10 to age 28. He loved Scouting and has always felt a responsibility to give back to Scouting what Scouting gave to him.

You probably don't know that Kirk is a mustang. He enlisted in the Marine Corps in 1990. Before he left for boot camp in San Diego, he completed an application to the U. S. Naval Academy. His first duty station was at Millington, TN, where his CO contacted him one day and told him that he had received an appointment to the Naval Academy. Kirk chose to spend a year
at the Naval Academy Preparatory School and was inducted into the Academy on July 1, 1992. He graduated in 1996 and got his wings two years later. He has been at Camp Pendleton with HMM-364 ever since. Last year he attended WTI in Yuma, Arizona, and is supposed to return there in August as an instructor.

Kirk is single, and when he finds Miss Right, he has promised to inform us of his wedding plans in time for
his sister and I to buy new dresses.

I think I can safely say that Kirk is devoted to flying and to the Marine Corps.
Sincerely,
Mary Nelson
"Cowboy's" mom
Sarah talks about her 'Chuy',Alejandro Cook
Alejandro Cook
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Alejandro “Chuy” Cook and I met while working at the same manufacturer in Illinois. I found Chuy very attractive and nice but I was 25 years old and he was only 19 years old so I hesitated for a couple months before I gave into going on a date with him. (He had several people pulling for him!) Chuy and I connected almost immediately and one afternoon I asked him where he thought that he would be 5 years from then and he didn’t really know so it got him thinking about his future and he decided to join the Marine Corp. We spent 6 months together before he left for boot camp and I sent him virtually a card a day while he was gone. He joined the Purple Foxes out of boot camp and has been there ever since.

We had a long distance relationship for the next two years and it had its ups and downs, once I realized what a priority he was in my life I moved to California. We got married in January of 2003 by a San Diego County Justice of the Peace and we are planning an October church wedding in Iowa.

It has to be fate that we met and here is why: Before I ever knew of Chuy I was living in Texas and dating another guy. At that time, this guy had a dog that always chewed his things so I told him he should have named his dog, Chewy. Then I bought a beagle while in Texas and decided to give him the name, Chewy. So, now I have a dog named Chewy and a husband whose nickname is Chuy (a Spanish nickname for the name Jesus, which is Chuy’s middle name).

It had to be fate!
Sarah Cook
Ken Lanter Proud Dad!
Sgt Jeff Lanter

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Jeff is married to Michelle and they have a 3 year old daughter named Isabella. Michelle also gave birth to a baby boy on Monday of this week (May 19) to Cole Robert Lanter.
As for me I am his dad and live in Portland, Or. Jeff has been in the Marine Corp for five years and re-enlisted last year for another four years!

Ken Lanter Proud Dad

Note: We have not heard from Michelle yet, but we are hoping that she will send us a picture of the children so all of us can 'oooh'!
Sgt.Fliear, I Support You Daddy
Kyli Fliear
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I wanted to make a spot for my husband, so that he could feel special.

My husband is Sgt. Darin Fliear. He has been with the Purple Foxes since September 1999. He is a helicopter mechanic and is working in Quality Assurance.

This picture was recently taken of our daughter, Kyli.

We wanted to show her support for her daddy and daddy's friends.
Nicole Fliear
Beauty and the Fox, Medina!
Steven & Cherry Medina
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Steven
was born on October 21, 1973 Bronx, New York. He has 4 brothers and 5 sisters.

Steven and I met at a birthday party of Sergeant Christopher Vivar last July 15, 2000. I was there to see greet my best friend Sergeant Vivar and I didn't know he invited all his Marines coworkers so when I opened the sliding door to the pool area the only person was focus and clear from vision was Steven and the rest was to blurry from me.

Steven proposed on Christmas Eve 2000 by the lake. We were married by the Justice of the Peace on August 25, 2001 and then a month later he was deployed to Okinawa,
Japan for fifteen months. Steven came home for 3 weeks for our big church wedding on November 16, 2002 and then 3 days later he's back to Okinawa to complete his deployment until December 2002. So Steven's finally back here in California on December 21, 2002 for his first Christmas and New Year. We had nice 4 weeks being together and then we heard the news that he will be deploy to Kuwait on February 8th, 2003 so ever since he is away from me. I am so proud of him making this commitment to his country and to our marriage, it makes me love him even more and I cannot wait for him to come home.

I love you always, Cherry
Tabatha and Oscar the Dog Misses Jeff!
Jeff Barton
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Sgt Barton has been in the Marine Corps for five years. The last year and a half of his career as a Marine has been spent with HMM-364 and he has recently reenlisted for another five years. His dedication does not stop there. He has a wonderful wife named Tabatha and a loyal dog named Oscar. He was born and raised in Gower, Missouri. Sgt Barton is a loving son, husband, and dedicated Marine. He loves to serve his country!!!

Tabatha Barton

I LOVE YOU BABY!!!!!!

And Oscar too!! ROOF! ROOF! DADDY
Foxy Lady Susan Talks About Richard Evans
Sgt Richard Evans
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Richard
has two older sisters, who both live in Texas. Rick was born in Kansas, but in 1983, we moved to New Braunfels, Texas when he was in Kindergarten and we lived there for about 10 years. In 1992, his freshman year in high school, we moved to Flanders, New Jersey, where he attended Mount Olive High School, graduating in 1996.
He attended Texas A&M University for 2 years, and then lived in Texas for another 8 months, where he enlisted in the U. S. Marine Corps, entering basic training in February, 1999. He had expressed an interest in the military since about the 6th grade, but it was always the Navy and jets, so when he joined the Marines, it was a little bit of a surprise. He still had his interest in flying, but his aircraft ended up being the CH 46 helicopter as an Air Crew Chief.

Original stationed on the East Coast, personal interests had him pursue a transfer to California, which had him assigned to Camp Pendleton in early 2001, where he became part of the Purple Fox Unit.

He was promoted to Sargent this February, two days before being deployed.

Rick became an uncle on March 26, when his older sister, Jennifer, gave birth to her son, Ronald Charles Skelton, III. R.C., as he is called, is anxiously awaiting the opportunity to meet his Uncle Rick.

Rick has lots of love and support from family and friends in various parts of the U.S. -
one of the classes in Cedar Creek Elementary School, Credar Creek, Texas, where his other sister, Allison teaches Pre-k, has sent him letters .
*Allison's Pre-K class made a banner that had each of the students hand prints and thanking Rick for fighting for freedom.
*Also a home school in New Jersey, has also "adopted" Rick and they all sent letters.
*My dance club, Studio West, in NJ also took up a collection, and sent a box of goodies to him and two soldiers in the U.S. Army that are also deployed.
*Plus he has many who are constantly including him and all our service personnel in their prayers

Susan M. Evans
Proud Mom
Capt. Chad 'Deuce' Dupill
Capt Chad Dupill
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Our son is the second of five boys all but one is in or has been in the Marine Corps. Chad joined the Marines about 1996 as an Enlisted Reservist. He took a semester off of college to go to basic training at Parris Island (he felt he needed discipline). He then returned to college and entered the PLC program with an air contract. He already had his private pilot's license as he had always wanted to fly. He was commissioned upon graduation from the University of Pittsburgh at the Point in Pittsburgh, PA, his father, a retired Navy Lt. Commander and his brother, a USMC 2nd Lt. commissioned him. From there he went to TBS at Quantico, then to flight school through the JESUP program at Vance Air Force Base and then to Pensacola where he got his wings. He loved flying the "Tweet" at Vance but loves flying helicopters even more. His first
duty assignment after training was Camp Pendleton and the Purple Foxes. He is currently unmarried but has a girlfriend in CA, Katie. He is an uncle and godfather to his oldest brother's son and stayed with is brother and his wife (who were also stationed at Pendleton) during her entire labor! Chad and his four brothers are very close friends and enjoy spending time together whenever possible.
We Love You and Semper Fi!
Linda and Pete Dupill
Quiet on the outside Capt Peter Gibbons
Capt Pete Gibbons
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There are some many things to share about my husband that I'm not sure where to start! I guess that I can group many of his wonderful qualities into three groups; individualism, support, and courage. The definition of Pete is an evolving process, but these three ideals remain to be his foundation. For instance, not many people know that Pete is actually famous. Yes, famous! He has had his own bill board for a ski resort in his hometown. He is that good! his individualism and courage has enabled Pete to conquer and master skiing, windsurfing, and various other sports. He is secure emough in his self-worth to hang out with my friends, many who are gay, and not judge their lifestyle choice. He is not afraid to be himself, whether in Las Vegas or Pensacola.

One of the most supportive things he did for me was to be my friend and coach during my first figure competition. I was very moody because of my diet. I had to keep a written diary of every food I ate He helped me to be strong and told me I would do fine. One day, I was reviewing my notes and found little words written beside my entries. "One shot of tequila, One beer." I knew where they had come from...Pete! Surprisingly I won my division and he arrived back stage with sushi, my favorite! What a wonderful guy!

Probably, the most courageous thing that Pete has done so far has been to help me finish my college degree. I look forward with much anticipation to his return and to the continuation of our journey together. Knowing Pete it will begin again in some sort of expensive sports car (Silver, I think)! So when you see Pete and he is quiet, just know this; he may be quiet on the outside, but add tequila and he is most certainly not!

Love,

Sandy Gibbons
Proud Wife!

Ron 'Bones' Ulery
Ron 'Bones' Ulery
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Ronnie's
nickname with his fellow Marines is "Bones"

Ronnie was born in California and raised in Sandusky, Ohio. He now resides (when he's home) in California. (Lucky us !!!)

Aidan James Ulery, Ronnie and Rachel's son, will be one year old on September 26th. His Dad Ron is a Star...a bright and shining Star. He is generous and giving to his family and never fails to bring a brightness into a room in which he enters.

He has always thought of others and prayed for others ever since he was a little boy.
One of his very favorite people is his Mom.
He has Uncles that just know it's not a golf game without Ronnie along.
He has Cousins that adore him and have some mighty fun memories of their growing up years together.

He has a wife, Rachel, who makes him so happy and who misses him every minute of every day.

Ron is a fun and admirable human being. He is committed to the United States Marines and will do whatever he must to protect this Country and I for one am very lucky to be his Aunt.

It is so great to be a part of all of this.

Ron (Bones") Ulery Aunt Patti
 
   

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