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These
are our experiences as Marine families and friends
of the Purple Foxes.
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Index
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"What
do you mean you've got orders?"
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24 hours
after the birth of our daughter my husband
came into the hospital room informing
me that he had just received orders to
Vietnam. I immediately went into a state
of panic that only increased when doctors
refused to let me leave the hospital for
3 days. Confronted with the crisis of
war, what would you say to a woman whose
hormones are all out of sync? Not much,
I think. Certainly, the doctors at Camp
LeJeune, N.C. knew better than to pander
the usual lines of reassurance. "Don't
worry, little lady", was just not
going to fly with me! I suspect, at that
moment that they thought I was more dangerous
than some faceless enemy 3000 miles away
and were probably right. I, like many
other women of the time had to adjust
to the orders of the USMC, even if they
appeared to be poorly timed. Okay, it
was war, I understood that, I was a Marine
wife, I understood that, but at the time
my feelings and thoughts were not exactly
communicating together!
So what
memories do I have of that period? Surprisingly,
my husband's Marine buddies stand out
as the most cherished. After discovering
our situation several men in his unit
requested to take his place in deployment
so we could have time settle our family
before he left. The request understandably
was denied, but the selflessness of these
men still remains in my heart. All the
hype of the rough and tumble, emotionless
highly trained warrior, is just that,
hype. These men remain in my heart and
mind as my protectors.
Kerry was
stationed with HMM-364,
Purple Foxes at DaNang from 1969-1970.
Vicki
Wages
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Sgt. Kerry J. Wages
1969-1970
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Vicki and Kerry
2003
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A
Letter from A Doc's Kid, Stephanie
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4/2/03 8:53:33 PM Central Standard
Time
The
show that the reporter Greg Jarrett
reports in to is the Mark &
Dave show. This morning I sent an
email of thanks to Mark and Dave,
although I didn't really know if
it would ever get through to them
personally. I turned the radio on
this afternoon at
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4pm
to hear the start of their show
(they talk about Iraq almost 100%
of the time right now). They said
they had to start the show out with
very important and serious letter...
and then proceeded to read my email!
They read the entire letter (which
I've put at the end of this email)
on air and said that tomorrow they
will be sharing it with Greg Jarrett
personally. We'll see if they do
it on air or not. If they do, it
will be on that same web site by
Friday.
I
spoke with Mark & Dave on the
phone this afternoon and told them
how shocked I was to hear the letter
being read and told them that there
are now lots of Foxes, wives and
mothers across the States checking
in on their website for the reports,
etc. They thought that was pretty
cool. So if they let the Greg Jarrett
know this, then perhaps he will
pass it along to the guys so they
know the moms and wives are getting
some communication that way.
Okay,
here's my letter. I'm still in shock
that they read it, but am so glad
that there is a way for us Foxes
and Foxy Ladies across the States
to hear these reports.
My
letter...which they read word for
word.
Hi
Mark and Dave,
I
cannot thank you enough for including
Greg Jarrett's reports on the Purple
Foxes in your show. And for archiving
them on your web site in case I
miss them.
My
name is Stephanie Hanson
and my father was a corpsman killed
in Vietnam on 2/7/69 with the Purple
Foxes. He was flying his first day
of medevac missions (just as the
Foxes are now) when the helicopter
was shot down and 6 out of 7 Marines
were killed.
My
father was killed 2 months before
I was born and I was subsequently
put up for adoption. It was only
6 years ago that I found out who
my father was and I began a search
to find out who he was and what
had happened to him. I discovered
that it was my good fortune that
he had happened to be flying with
the Purple Foxes that day
because you could not have asked
for a greater bunch of guys.
The
Vietnam-era Foxes have come out
of the woodwork to help me put all
the pieces together and have truly
formed a new family for me. Many
of them keep in touch with the active-duty
Foxes - you just wouldn't be able
to find a closer-knit family.
Last
year, the active-duty Purple
Foxes - headed up by their Commanding
Officer - helped me finally get
my father awarded his Combat Aircrew
Wings. I had struggled for years
to get these awarded to no avail,
but the Purple Foxes really
came through for me. These are the
same guys that are now over in Iraq
flying those dangerous missions
Greg Jarrett is reporting on. I
had gotten emails and letters from
the guys before the war started,
but communication is difficult now
and so I really rely on the media
to keep me informed of the happenings.
It
was a great pleasure to find out
that you regularly talk to the reported
embedded with "my guys"
and for that I just wanted to tell
you thank you from the bottom of
my heart. Thank you for the support
you are giving these guys every
day. You are helping to show the
rest of the world just how wonderful
this group of guys are. They are
just doing there job and we want
them all to come home safe.
Semper
Fi,
Stephanie Hanson
A Doc's Kid
See
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A
Letter of Support from a
Purple Fox
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Feel
like the work we do as Foxy Ladies
is taken for granted? Read this
from one of our Vietnam veterans!
4/2/03 6:39:28
PM Central Standard Time
Keep up the great work. One of
the most constructive things the
reunions provide, in my opinion,
is an opportunity for the wives
(especially second wives) to compare
their spousal experiences and
there by gain better insight into
exactly what the hell might be
going on in their husbands' minds.
Never having known him before
his Viet Nam service, they have
no reference of comparison for
his present behavior and attitude.
Wives are innate care-givers and
are the ultimate supporters. They
can't effectively fulfill that
instinctive role without some
insight from those with previous
first-hand experience. The Foxy
Ladies are providing an invaluable
service to the spouses of men
who may not fully realize that
they need, and can benefit from,
their spouse's nurturing. Perhaps
they'll also have a role in helping
the current wives of Purple Foxes
deployed in Iraq cope with and
understand what their spouses
are experiencing.
Regards,
Bob
Sgt.
Robert Steinberg (Super Jew)
was in Vietnam '67-'69
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Bob
'67-'70

Bob 2003
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A
Foxy Lady Visits Camp Pendleton
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My trip to southern CA last week turned
out to be absolutely wonderful
and not just because of the wonderful
weather! Everywhere I went, I definitely
got the special treatment and it was
a perfect way for me to spend the
35th anniversary of my fathers
crash in Vietnam. Being with Purple
Fox veterans and active-duty military
really made it meaningful for me.
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On Thursday, Gooie and Carleen
Gomez took me down to Camp Pendleton
where we visited the active-duty
Purple Fox unit. Lt. Davidge
the S-5 officer
gave us the grand tour. We were
taken everywhere in the building,
which really made me laugh because
doors, stairs and all sorts
of random places were painted
purple it was great!
I was finally able to meet Captain
Justin Marvel for the first
time in person. Captain Marvel
is the one who headed up and
put many hours of work into
getting my father his wings
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The highlight came when we went out
to the flight line. All sorts of helicopters
flying around Hueys,
Cobras, 53s, and of course,
the 46s. We put on the cranial
helmets and walked out into the middle
of the action. One bird was waiting
for us and Lt. Davidge and a pilot
who was visiting from HMM-268 explained
all the finer details to me. I was
able to sit in the pilots seat
for probably 30 minutes and watch
all the activity around us. I saw
all the helicopters flying around,
maneuvering, hovering, landing, taking
off
. it was absolutely incredible
for me to be in the middle of it.
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When they were finally able
to drag me away from the flight
deck, we met the CO Col
Radich and the XO
Major Mee of the Foxes. I had
not met either of them before
and they made sure that we were
seeing all we wanted.
They gave us gifts of Purple
Fox patches, the COs Purple
Fox coin, and one item that
any Vietnam-era Purple Fox will
find interesting. In continuing
the tradition started in Vietnam
of Purple Fox calling cards,
the current unit has created
an updated version for their
missions in Iraq. With a picture
of Swifty, it reads as follows:
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" Swifty says Give
a Shit. This ride brought to
you by the World Famous Purple Foxes
of HMM-364. Sure, it is the oldest
pig in the fleet. And yes, it leaks
a lot. But you aint walkin!"
Then we went into the supply room
where they turned off all the lights
and showed us the night-vision goggles
something I had not seem before
and was fascinated by.
My visit truly exceeded all expectations
and I was amazed by how much time
and thoughtfulness they put into our
visit.
The
next day, we went down to MCRD for
the color parade and a graduation.
Gooie had previously met the Base
Commander, BGen Paxton, who had
the protocol officer arrange for
VIP seating for us at the graduation.
When we arrived at the ceremony,
I was amazed to see that we had
received front-row seating. But
if I was amazed at that, I was stunned
when I saw that I was seated next
to General Paxton! I tried to make
Gooie sit by him, but he wouldnt
hear of it.
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General Paxton arrived and we
were introduced and he soon
made me forget my nervousness.
He is truly wonderful and put
me right at ease. He answered
all my questions during the
ceremony, pointed out insider
information on the happenings,
and in general just made me
feel very special. My brother
had graduated from MCRD back
in September of 1990, and I
wasnt able to go to his
graduation having just started
college in Washington DC. General
Paxton asked lots of questions
about my brothers time
in the service and I told him
how jealous my brother was going
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On Saturday, I went to visit Col Gene
Brady, who was recovering from surgery
in the hospital. (For those of you
who dont know, Gene was the
CO of the Purple Foxes the day of
my fathers crash.) I was able
to spend about an hour visiting with
he and Ginny and they both actually
looked really great. They are looking
forward to the Pop A Smoke reunion
in Reno in just a few months.
That
evening I went to a play on Vietnam
with the Gomezs, Richard and
Brenda Bianchino, and Lt Williamson,
the pilot from HMM-268 that both
Gooie and Richard know. While the
play was difficult to watch at times,
bringing up a lot of emotions, it
was still a perfect way for me to
pay tribute to my father and the
men that died with him so many years
ago.
Unfortunately,
I had to return home to Portland
and 33 degree weather. (Im
most definitely ready to move to
Southern California at this point!)
While it is always sad to return
home after such a wonderful time,
I will close by saying that I continue
to be amazed at the generosity and
true interest of all our active-duty
Marines today. I dont think
my visit to either base could have
turned out any better! What a great
life I lead surrounded by such wonderful
people!
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Stephanie
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Linda Macone Talks About her Niece 1st Lt
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For a little something about Jen
and me...............Jen is the
daughter I never had! I have three sons,
the oldest of whom is an Army (ouch!)
Kiowa helicopter pilot. Jen's mom
has Multiple Sclerosis and it is very
difficult for her to get around.............so
I happily was able to share more in Jen's
life than the typical aunt. I had the
fun of shopping for prom dresses, USNA
Ring Dance, visiting the Naval Academy
with my video camera always in tow so
the whole family could share the experiences
"on TV". Thanks to the wonderful
world of the internet, I have been able
to share everything that Jen has
done with her family. We have a scapbook
of pictures and articles, all of her e-mails
and even the audio interview with Greg
Jarrett on a cd to give to her when she
returns.
Jen has always been an extremely
hard worker. She puts 100% into everything
she does. She is also very compassionate.
She really cares about people and I am
sure that the Purple Foxes are
benefiting from that quality. She is a
good listener and I am sure that she has
probably filled the void felt by some
of her Marines, leaving their Moms or
sisters or best friends to go off to war.
I am sooooooooooo proud of her..........and
all of our men and women in the military!
Foxy Lady
Linda Macone Proud Aunt!
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Tammy
Harlan Loves Her LCPL Ryan J. Valdez
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Ryan
was born August 17, 1982. He is my first born.
He has 4 sisters and 3 brothers (these are full
blood and steps). Ryan is the oldest at
20... then Stacey 18, Nicole 16, Brett 13, Brittney
12, E.J. 9, Mikaela 5, Sammy 3.
Ryan is married to Tracie Valdez, his New
Prairie High School sweetheart. Ryan and
Tracie married right before Ryan left for
boot camp in California. Ryan grew up in
North Central, Indiana. He went to New Prairie
High School where he excelled in sports (baseball,
football and wrestling). Ryan has an off the wall
sense of humor (much like his mother).. and is
extremely creative. He will never know a "dull
moment" because it has always been very easy
for him to just "dream something up to do."
His favorite past-time has to be playing video
games (X-Box). Ryan also loves to cook...
and is great at it!
I'm 40 years old and live in Rolling Prairie,
Indiana with my husband, (SW/AW) IC1 Ernest
H. Harlan, US NAVY... and 2 children, Stacey
18 and Brett 13. I own 2 businesses: Santiago
SDS, Inc. (www.santiagosds.com)
and Medical Billing Course.com (www.medicalbillingcourse.com).
I'm extremely proud of my son and I cannot wait
for him to return home. When I start hugging him..
I doubt I will be able to let go of him!!!
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Angela
talks about L Cpl Benjamin J.Dalbeck
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Benjamin
joined the Marines right out of High
school back in 99'. He has two other brothers
that also were Marines. I have 8
siblings so its like one big happy family
(most of the time). Benjamin's mother and
father live in San Bernardino, Ca about
3 hours from us.
We were married August 7, 2002 and his deployment
will be over two days AFTER our 1st anniversary!
No children yet, all I know is we will be
having one ASAP when he gets home!
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first call from him was on Valentines
Day and was like "Oh I love you".
Man did that melt my heart. I thought he
was being all romantic for finding time
to call me on Valentines Day, A month
later I get a letter saying "Oh yeah
I found out after I got off the phone with
you that it was Valentines Day!"
Ha! So much for romantic but I still love
him. On another call he told me he had tacos.
I was like 'oh cool', but he was so excited
because all they eat are hamburgers and
hot dogs and soggy fries.
To kill time Benjamin writes or records
messages on tape. We send these back and
forth. That helps alot. I love Benjamin.
What he is doing a is a great thing, I only
wish I could be out there helping him or
even trade places. Now that we have hit
the 3 month marker (crossing our fingers
that they do come home at 6 months) it is
all down hill from here on.
Benjamin, is a hard working guy, he
puts all his effort and will into everything
he does. He works
in administration and is the one that makes
certain that all the letters get through!
Benjamin is my best friend
so him being gone I am missing, not only
my husband but my best friend! With God's
help I'm sure I will pull through all this.
I am just so proud of what all of our Marines
are doing out there. I love him! :) Hope
that helps let me know if he will be on
on the site because if he is then that would
melt my heart.
Angela
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Angela
and Leon, Proud Parents of Cpl. Brandon Keith
Suggs
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Wanted
to let you know we found our fox! Brandon
emailed me Sunday. You can't imagine the
excitement at our house. He is doing fine
and misses his family. He said he had
only gotten one of the tons of packages
we sent. I told him to hold on for the
avalanche of mail!
Here's a little about Brandon,
he is 19 years old, he joined to Marines
in his Senior year. He was at boot camp
when the Sept 11th attacks took place.
So he has been in 1 and half years.
Brandon is very well respected
in our area for standing up for what he
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in.There
is not a day that goes by that someone
doesnt ask, have you heard from Brandon?Is
Brandon ok?
From what we understand Brandon handles
the tools and test equipment for the CH-46
helicopters.
Brandon was promoted to Cpl just before
he left for Kuwait. He loves to travel
and loves to talk!
Proud Marine Mom
Angela Suggs |
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Foxy
Lady Karen and Sgt. Patrick Swearingen
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Foxy
Lady Karen and Sgt. Patrick Swearingen
have been married just over a year, March
9, 2002 was the wedding date. Karen
told us "We don't have any children
yet, but plan on having them in the future.
Pat and I enjoy hanging out with friends,
BBQing, playing games and relaxing together.
We are both pretty sarcstic, but very supportive,
so there are very few dull moments around
our house. As we all know being married
to a Marine has its ups and downs. What
I enjoy about living with Marine (besides
just having my husband around) is the support
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others. If we need something or there is
an emergency, there is always some one there
to lend a hand or help in any way they can.
I also love the pride and courage that the
Marines display on a daily basis.
The down sides are sacrifices that come
with the benefits, the seperation and long,
odd hours. Those are a things that get easier
to deal with as times goes by. Pat
is planning on getting out of the Marine
Corps when the stop loss is lifted,
his date to get out was May 25 of this year,
but we will have to wait on that. We will
miss the bonuses that come with the Corps,
but are excited to move back closer to family.
We have made some very good friends that
I am sure we will stay in contact with."
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LCPL
John
Burrows Mom Speaks Up!
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John
enlisted in the Marines in October of 2000.
He is 22 years old and single. He is my
second born and has two sisters, Malynda
25, Ashley 16 and one deceased brother,
Jesse whom would of been 21, died at 15
months due to a rare virus. His father has
remarried and John has two other
brothers Bobbi 11, and Joey 10.
Ever since John could crawl around
he was taking things apart and putting them
back together...Hinges on doors, radios,
working on engines etc... He likes to work
with his hands and has always wanted to
be a mechanic.
John says "I haven't done anything
special. I am just doing my job". Of
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together
as a team to get the job done.
John is a very intelligent, caring
and loving individual. He would give his
last meal to someone in need. He is willing
to help others in any way he can. But for
the most part he is ALL Marine.
Johns position/rank: LCPL Maintenance
Control/Mechanic
Thank you.
Wendy
LCPL John Burrows
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Veda
& Kit Jacoby,
and Chip the Lizardman!
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"Okay,
about the lizard picture. The first thing
I thought was how typical
that Chip would be holding some sort
of reptile. Chip grew up in the
country of very Northern California. It's
a small farming community. The
mountains were his backyard so he and his
brother grew up exploring them
and bringing home all sorts of critters.
Chip wanted to be a paleontologist when
he grew up. I can see he is keeping that
option open while he is in Iraq".
Stepmom Veda Jacoby
"I am Kit Jacoby and am the
proud father of Chip the lizardman
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That
is so much as his childhood. Whenever the
work was done he would run out on the farm
an catch lizards. Then try to keep them
alive in a mason jar. Keep us informed on
the progress the 364th is having.
Dad Kit Jacoby
Chip has quite
a following in the Foxy Lady membership
with his famous lizard photo! |
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Maj
James Shores Proposes to Diane on a Plane!
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Jim and I met at a "Winging"
party here in Pensacola in May of 2001.
I was there to see a Marine
friend off and he was there as the dutiful
instructor pilot. So, we have known each
other since that day, May 25, 2003.
"We were headed to Key West for my
birthday and Jim was in cahoots with
the pilot and the flight attendants, so
when the captain was telling us that we
were about 50 miles from Key West, he also
said, "Diane Storm, James Shores
has a very important question for you..."
and Jim pulled out the ring and
popped the question. The flight attendant
asked me what my answer was (because I was
crying so hard I couldn't talk...happy tears
of course), so I told her definitely, "YES".
She then told the captain and he announced
it to the whole plane. We even got a round
of applause!!! We had a great week in Key
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When
the Purple Foxes get back to the
States, we will have to find a home in San
Diego and then Jim will come to Pensacola
to get me and our dog and two cats. Talk
about a cross-country trip! We have a house
here in Pensacola that we need to sell too,
so it'll be kind of a mess for a while.
As for being a Marine wife, I know
I'm going to enjoy it. Jim's father
was also in the Marines and his Mom
has given me some good advice. As have
several friends of ours whose marriages
have made it through USMC retirement. Basically
it's the three "Be's". Be patient,
Be understanding, and Be Strong. I can't
wait to meet everyone in the squadron and
become involved in the activities that they
are doing."
Diane Storm 'Soon
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Amy's Adventure
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My husband, Ryan grew up a Navy brat
and always wanted to be a pilot. His father
Gregory DeMik, Lt. Commander,
was stationed all around the world in his
20+ years flying fixed wing in the Navy.
Ryan spent most of his early years
overseas; 7 years at Subic in the Philippines
and 3 in Sicily, before returning to the
states to live in Corpus Christi and then
LeMoore in CA. Ryan applied on a whim to
USNA, and fell over when it was one of the
few schools that accepted him. After 2 years,
he felt that it was time to follow a more
spiritual path, and left the Academy to
go on a mission for our church. Upon leaving,
the Academic Dean told him "not
to bother to reapply when he got back".
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looking back Ryan, went to his assignment
as a missionary in Japan. He lived and worked
spreading Christian principles and teaching
English to many in the Nagoya area for 2
years. Towards the end of this time he wasn't
sure what he would be returning to; what
school he would return to or if he would
ever realize his dream of being an aviator.
This was a difficult time for him to think
that following his heart and fulfilling
a mission may have jeopardized his dream
of flying. His father had taken it upon
himself to resubmit all of the paperwork
and recommendations for Ryan to be re accepted
into the Academy as a Junior. To everyone's
amazement he returned to BOAT SCHOOL, as
he called it and hit the books again.
It was in
December of '95 at the ARMY-NAVY Football
game in Philadelphia that we met. We started
dating his last year and he graduated
with a degree in Computer Sciences and
a Minor in Japanese in '97. It was these
final years at the Academy and his experiences
on summer cruise with Marines both at
Quantico and Mirimar that convinced this
NAVY BRAT to run for the CORPS! One chance
at painting his face and playing war games
and he was done...no looking back...it
was MARINE CORPS ALL THE WAY. Well,
needless to say, it was a difficult phone
call back to Mom and Dad, but he was then
selected for MARINE AIR, shaved and after
Commissioning, sent to the Pentagon for
2 months before TBS.
I was thrilled
that my handsome husband wasn't wearing
those MILKMAN Navy uniforms anymore!
We were married at the Naval Academy Chapel
on July 12, 1997 and moved to Woodbridge,
VA to begin our journey. He went through
Basic, then started API and then on to
Whiting Field. In between the studying
and flight school schedule, we had some
time to have our first born, our son,
Ryan "Austin" DeMik. At
this time, Ryan started to lean
more and more to the 46 community as his
first choice. He wanted to be a Marine
because he was so impressed by the NOT
FOR ONESELF attitude that he saw present
in every Marine. Working on 46's
seemed like a great fit to be involved
with Grunts as well as that team work
feeling you get from working with a 4
man crew. So, graduating at the top of
his class in Feb, 2000 he chose 46's Okinawa
(the selection that most people dread!)
He went through the RAG out here at Pendleton
with HMM-165, then we were off to THE
ROCK!
Our time
on Oki with HMM-262 was an adventure.
It was a fantastic group of people....you
know, when you make that one batch of
chili that has just the right seasonings,
you can never replicate it no matter how
hard you try! He was involved with many
exercises in the Thailand, S. Korea,
Hong Kong, Mainland Japan and almost
in the Philippines.. his bird had
hydraulic failure and had to make an emergency
landing on one of the islands on the path
to the PI and stayed over for a few days
before they could return to FUTENMA. So,
after making it through a MEU with the
ESSEX Battle Group we settled in but due
to health issues with our daughter,
Ellie, who was born on island, we
needed to return to the States for health
care. It was a blessing that he was picked
up by HMM-364 and we moved to Camp
Pendleton in January of 2002.
So, what
can I say about my husband? That after
6 years of marriage, 2 kids, 9 moves,
and countless MEU exercises, TADs, CAXs,
schools, duties, "I won't be home
for dinner again" days, I can
honestly say he is still the kindest,
most decent man I have ever known.
I miss him terribly but know that he is
doing his job, what he has trained to
do, what he joined the Marine Corps
to do, and I'm sure he's doing it as thoroughly
as he can and with a joke and a smile.
Semper Fi, let's hope things rap up soon
for our beloved Purple Foxes.
Amy DeMik
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Katy, Cassidy and Dad Daniel Caldwell
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Daniel joined the Marines in
1999 and was due to get out July 2003 but
there was a stop loss order.
He left on Feb 9th for Kuwait & Cassidy
was born on March 26th. He is
thrilled to be a Daddy, he just wishes he
could be here for the first months of her
life. It's really hard for him to miss so
much, but I send him pictures all the time
& we just wait patiently for his safe
return. He comes home a few days after the
bulk of the guys. He doesn't leave until
all their gear is gone. He is an embarkation
specialist.
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We met on
Sept 19, 2001 at the beach in oceanside.
I don't know about him, but it was love
at first sight for me. That first night
I told my friend I was going to marry
him. We sat up & talked all night
until he had to get ready to go to work.
We were married by the Justice
of the Peace on Dec. 17,
2002. We are going to have a big wedding
with friends & family in attendance
on Sept. 28th 2003.
Come home soon!
Katy and
Cassity
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Sara
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Jonathan "Shawn" and I met
in college. Actually, I met him before he
met me. I was whipping into the parking
lot, as I often did, and swiped his car.
There was no real damage, just a little
scratch and some white paint on his blue
bumper. I got out and brushed it off and
parked somewhere else. About a month later
I saw the car and someone was getting out.
He was headed in the same direction I was,
to a co-ed business fraternity gathering.
Shawn and I ended up in the same
pledge class and became good friends, although
I avoided attending the car washes with
him. One of our close friends finally told
him about 2 years ago that I had hit his
car. We all had a good laugh over it, because
it was a little bit of kismet. We stayed
friends after college and emailed occasionally.
One evening we happened to bump into each
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Shawn
and I dated for 9 months before he enlisted
and went to boot camp. Being a Marine
brat, I was well aware of the "dangers"
of being a Marine wife. Shawn grew
up in the Air Force, so the Marine life
was a bit of a shock. I stayed in Louisiana
while he went through MCRD San Diego.
His graduation was my first trip to California.
It was the most awesome site to see all
the recruits becoming Marines.
After MCT, Shawn went to Pensacola, my
hometown, for mech school and then to
New River for more Air Frames and Hydraulics
training. It was neat having him stationed
on or near the bases where I grew up.
In spring of 2000, he was finally stationed
at Camp Pendleton with HMM-364
and 2 months later I was transferred to
Dallas with JCPenney. We have earned lots
of frequent flyer miles between Dallas
and San Diego. After a year of traveling
and with 2 years left on his tour, we
decided it was time to get married. We
figured it would make the time left more
interesting.
My friends
keep telling me Im insane because
I still live in Dallas/Frisco. We have
a house, 2 horses and 2 dogs. The horses
dont live with me. Shawn
just made Sargeant while in Kuwait, and
I had thought I would be there when he
received this promotion (I had missed
the others) but we will have to celebrate
when he returns. He enjoys working in
the Corrosion Control shop and
I am really proud of the work he does.
His EAS is April 27, 2004. Living together
will be a challenge, but after this, anything
is possible and I am eagerly awaiting
the challenge. I am so proud of him for
making this commitment to his country
and to the United States Marine Corps,
it makes me love him even more.
Semper Fi!
Sara
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Aaron and Joyce first met
in 1999. At the time, Joyce was almost
a senior in high school and was living with
her sister Jennifer and her husband Brian.
Aaron, Brian's cousin had just enlisted
when he met Joyce. He was entranced
by Joyce and asked her out. Their first
date they spent almost an entire night talking
at Denny's. But fate had something else
in mind and the couple parted ways.
14 months later Joyce had moved to
Long Beach CA. and ran into Aaron
again. There was no turning back! The two
of them dated steadily, until they married.
Their first addition to the Arnold
family was Ariana who was born on
January 25, three weeks early! Her Dad,
Aaron left for Kuwait on Feb. 9.
Ariana had to see her Dad before
he left!
This is a true Fox Family!
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The
"Grand Old Man', Helen & Abigail
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Brian
and I met in 1992 at work. I asked him to
my homecoming football game to make my ex-boyfriend
jealous. We got along so well that we started
dating. After 3 years of dating, he proposed
to me on a mountain top. We married in September
of 1996. Brian didn't join the military
right out of high school like most do. He
waited to the last possible minute. He left
for boot camp on his 32nd birthday. He
was nicknamed the "grand old man."
All of his drill instructors were at least
5 years younger then him. After bootcamp
and all of his additional training was over,
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of us grew up in Orange County, CA so it's
great to be able to stay close to our families.
I found
out I was pregnant when Brian was
in South Korea. He would call me everyday
and ask if I was pregnant. He finally stopped
asking after about 3 weeks of me saying
no. Then I thought I had the flu. The flu
turned out to be morning sickness.
Long story short, Abigail was born
October 29th. We are both so happy.
Brian left for Kuwait when Abigail
was 3 months old. I know it broke his heart.
I email him pictures almost everyday....of
her taking her first bites of cereal....to
sucking on her foot. When he calls I put
the phone up to Abby's ear and she smiles
when she hears his voice. We can't wait
for him to come home.
WE LOVE YOU B!
Hurry home.
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Cowboy's
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Kirk
is the youngest of our two children and
our only son. He has wanted to fly since
we took him to the Air and Space Museum
at the Smithsonian when he was 3 years old.
Kirk is an Eagle Scout and went to
Scout camp every year from age 10 to age
28. He loved Scouting and has always felt
a responsibility to give back to Scouting
what Scouting gave to him.
You probably don't know that Kirk is
a mustang. He enlisted in the Marine
Corps in 1990. Before he left for boot
camp in San Diego, he completed an application
to the U. S. Naval Academy. His first duty
station was at Millington, TN, where his
CO contacted him one day and told him that
he had received an appointment to the Naval
Academy. Kirk chose to spend a year
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the Naval Academy Preparatory School and
was inducted into the Academy on July 1,
1992. He graduated in 1996 and got his wings
two years later. He has been at Camp Pendleton
with HMM-364 ever since. Last year
he attended WTI in Yuma, Arizona, and is
supposed to return there in August as an
instructor.
Kirk is single, and when he finds Miss Right,
he has promised to inform us of his wedding
plans in time for
his sister and I to buy new dresses.
I think I can safely say that Kirk
is devoted to flying and to the Marine
Corps.
Sincerely,
Mary Nelson
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Sarah
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Alejandro
Chuy Cook and I met while
working at the same manufacturer in Illinois.
I found Chuy very attractive and
nice but I was 25 years old and he was only
19 years old so I hesitated for a couple
months before I gave into going on a date
with him. (He had several people pulling
for him!) Chuy and I connected almost
immediately and one afternoon I asked him
where he thought that he would be 5 years
from then and he didnt really know
so it got him thinking about his future
and he decided to join the Marine Corp.
We spent 6 months together before he left
for boot camp and I sent him virtually a
card a day while he was gone. He joined
the Purple Foxes out of boot camp
and has been there ever since.
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We had a long distance relationship for
the next two years and it had its ups and
downs, once I realized what a priority he
was in my life I moved to California. We
got married in January of 2003 by
a San Diego County Justice of the Peace
and we are planning an October church wedding
in Iowa.
It has to be fate that we met and here is
why: Before I ever knew of Chuy I
was living in Texas and dating another guy.
At that time, this guy had a dog that always
chewed his things so I told him he should
have named his dog, Chewy. Then I
bought a beagle while in Texas and decided
to give him the name, Chewy. So,
now I have a dog named Chewy and
a husband whose nickname is Chuy
(a Spanish nickname for the name Jesus,
which is Chuys middle name).
It had to be fate!
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Jeff is married to Michelle
and they have a 3 year old daughter named
Isabella. Michelle also gave
birth to a baby boy on Monday of this week
(May 19) to Cole Robert Lanter.
As for me I am his dad and live in Portland,
Or. Jeff has been in the Marine Corp
for five years and re-enlisted last year
for another four years!
Ken Lanter Proud Dad
Note: We have
not heard from Michelle yet, but we are
hoping that she will send us a picture of
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I Support You Daddy
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I wanted to make a spot for my husband,
so that he could feel special.
My husband is Sgt. Darin Fliear.
He has been with the Purple Foxes
since September 1999. He is a helicopter
mechanic and is working in Quality Assurance.
This picture was recently taken of our daughter,
Kyli.
We wanted to show her support for her daddy
and daddy's friends.
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Beauty
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Steven was born on October 21, 1973
Bronx, New York. He has 4 brothers and 5
sisters.
Steven and I met at a birthday party
of Sergeant Christopher Vivar last July
15, 2000. I was there to see greet my best
friend Sergeant Vivar and I didn't know
he invited all his Marines coworkers
so when I opened the sliding door to the
pool area the only person was focus and
clear from vision was Steven and the rest
was to blurry from me.
Steven proposed on Christmas Eve 2000 by
the lake. We were married by the Justice
of the Peace on August 25, 2001 and then
a month later he was deployed to Okinawa,
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for fifteen months. Steven came home
for 3 weeks for our big church wedding on
November 16, 2002 and then 3 days later
he's back to Okinawa to complete his deployment
until December 2002. So Steven's
finally back here in California on December
21, 2002 for his first Christmas and New
Year. We had nice 4 weeks being together
and then we heard the news that he will
be deploy to Kuwait on February 8th, 2003
so ever since he is away from me. I am so
proud of him making this commitment to his
country and to our marriage, it makes me
love him even more and I cannot wait for
him to come home.
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Sgt
Barton has been in the Marine Corps for
five years. The last year and a half of
his career as a Marine has been spent with
HMM-364 and he has recently reenlisted for
another five years. His dedication does
not stop there. He has a wonderful wife
named Tabatha and a loyal dog named Oscar.
He was born and raised in Gower, Missouri.
Sgt Barton is a loving son, husband, and
dedicated Marine. He loves to serve his
country!!!
Tabatha Barton
I LOVE YOU BABY!!!!!!
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Lady Susan Talks About Richard Evans
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Richard has two older sisters, who
both live in Texas. Rick was born in Kansas,
but in 1983, we moved to New Braunfels,
Texas when he was in Kindergarten and
we lived there for about 10 years. In
1992, his freshman year in high school,
we moved to Flanders, New Jersey, where
he attended Mount Olive High School, graduating
in 1996.
He attended Texas A&M University for
2 years, and then lived in Texas for another
8 months, where he enlisted in the U.
S. Marine Corps, entering basic training
in February, 1999. He had expressed an
interest in the military since about the
6th grade, but it was always the Navy
and jets, so when he joined the Marines,
it was a little bit of a surprise. He
still had his interest in flying, but
his aircraft ended up being the CH 46
helicopter as an Air Crew Chief.
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stationed on the East Coast, personal
interests had him pursue a transfer to
California, which had him assigned to
Camp Pendleton in early 2001, where he
became part of the Purple Fox Unit.
He was promoted to Sargent this February,
two days before being deployed.
Rick became
an uncle on March 26, when his older sister,
Jennifer, gave birth to her son, Ronald
Charles Skelton, III. R.C., as he is called,
is anxiously awaiting the opportunity
to meet his Uncle Rick.
Rick has
lots of love and support from family and
friends in various parts of the U.S. -
one of the classes in Cedar Creek Elementary
School, Credar Creek, Texas, where his
other sister, Allison teaches Pre-k, has
sent him letters .
*Allison's Pre-K class made a banner that
had each of the students hand prints and
thanking Rick for fighting for freedom.
*Also a home school in New Jersey, has
also "adopted" Rick and they
all sent letters.
*My dance club, Studio West, in NJ also
took up a collection, and sent a box of
goodies to him and two soldiers in the
U.S. Army that are also deployed.
*Plus he has many who are constantly including
him and all our service personnel in their
prayers
Susan M.
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Our
son is the second of five boys all but one
is in or has been in the Marine Corps.
Chad joined the Marines about
1996 as an Enlisted Reservist. He took a
semester off of college to go to basic training
at Parris Island (he felt he needed discipline).
He then returned to college and entered
the PLC program with an air contract. He
already had his private pilot's license
as he had always wanted to fly. He was commissioned
upon graduation from the University of Pittsburgh
at the Point in Pittsburgh, PA, his father,
a retired Navy Lt. Commander and
his brother, a USMC 2nd Lt.
commissioned him. From there he went to
TBS at Quantico, then to flight school through
the JESUP program at Vance Air Force Base
and then to Pensacola where he got his wings.
He loved flying the "Tweet"
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assignment after training was Camp Pendleton
and the Purple Foxes. He is currently unmarried
but has a girlfriend in CA, Katie. He is
an uncle and godfather to his oldest brother's
son and stayed with is brother and his wife
(who were also stationed at Pendleton) during
her entire labor! Chad and his four brothers
are very close friends and enjoy spending
time together whenever possible.
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Quiet
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There are some many things to share about
my husband that I'm not sure where to start!
I guess that I can group many of his wonderful
qualities into three groups; individualism,
support, and courage. The definition of
Pete is an evolving process, but these three
ideals remain to be his foundation. For
instance, not many people know that Pete
is actually famous. Yes, famous! He has
had his own bill board for a ski resort
in his hometown. He is that good! his individualism
and courage has enabled Pete to conquer
and master skiing, windsurfing, and various
other sports. He is secure emough in his
self-worth to hang out with my friends,
many who are gay, and not judge their lifestyle
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most supportive things he did for me was
to be my friend and coach during my first
figure competition. I was very moody because
of my diet. I had to keep a written diary
of every food I ate He helped me to be
strong and told me I would do fine. One
day, I was reviewing my notes and found
little words written beside my entries.
"One shot of tequila, One beer."
I knew where they had come from...Pete!
Surprisingly I won my division and he
arrived back stage with sushi, my favorite!
What a wonderful guy!
Probably, the most courageous thing that
Pete has done so far has been to help
me finish my college degree. I look forward
with much anticipation to his return and
to the continuation of our journey together.
Knowing Pete it will begin again in some
sort of expensive sports car (Silver,
I think)! So when you see Pete and he
is quiet, just know this; he may be quiet
on the outside, but add tequila and he
is most certainly not!
Love,
Sandy
Gibbons
Proud Wife!
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Ronnie's nickname with his fellow Marines
is "Bones"
Ronnie was born in California and
raised in Sandusky, Ohio. He now resides
(when he's home) in California. (Lucky us
!!!)
Aidan James Ulery, Ronnie and Rachel's
son, will be one year old on September 26th.
His Dad Ron is a Star...a bright and shining
Star. He is generous and giving to his family
and never fails to bring a brightness into
a room in which he enters.
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He
has always thought of others and prayed
for others ever since he was a little boy.
One of his very favorite people is his Mom.
He has Uncles that just know it's not a
golf game without Ronnie along.
He has Cousins that adore him and have some
mighty fun memories of their growing up
years together.
He has a wife, Rachel, who makes
him so happy and who misses him every minute
of every day.
Ron is a fun and admirable human
being. He is committed to the United
States Marines and will do whatever
he must to protect this Country and I for
one am very lucky to be his Aunt.
It is so great to be a part of all of this.
Ron (Bones") Ulery Aunt Patti
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